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Every year there are over 10,000,000 children go to summer camp. For the children, the camp is funny and a rewarding experience full of challenges and excitement. More important, kids can learn about independence, cooperation, competition and teamwork at the camp. For some children, summer camp is also a time of significant emotional growth, development and transition. Parents often note that their children come home seeming older or more mature than before .

• The following tips are helpful for parents to prepare their kids for summer camp and deal with issues that may arise:
• Choose a camp that is suited to your child's personality, temperament and interests. If your child likes music, art or horseback riding, it makes sense to pick a camp with strengths in that area. At the same time, there is nothing wrong with encouraging kids to try new things or to have a variety of experiences. It is best not to force kids to do things at summer camp that they really dislike or simply cannot do.
• Involve your child when choosing the camp. Review brochures, videos and websites together. Ask for some advice of other families about the camp.
• Don't force kids to camp at too early an age. The right age will vary from child to child. It varies from 6 years old to fourteen or fifteen. If a child doesn't seem ready for a full summer away, consider a camp which has one-month sessions. It may be an easier transition and a more positive experience.
• If your child is shy, consider a camp where they know and like at least one other person at their own age. Having one friend makes it easier to meet other kids.
• If you choose a camp that is driving distance, consider an off-season visit to help familiarize your child with the setting.
• Encourage kids to bring favorite toys, books, music or other reminders of home such as photos or even favorite foods, if allowed by the camp.
• If kids have issues or problems with other campers, encourage them to try to work things out themselves before intervening. Suggest that they ask a counselor or the camp director for help or suggestions. Part of camp is about learning how to deal with new people and different situations.
• Help children keep in touch with friends from summer camp. Plan times for them to get together with kids who live nearby.
• Don't tell them things such as "I'll pick you up if you feel homesick." Don't tell your camper they can call you. Most camps discourage making phone calls, and encourage writing letters instead. Pack a disposable camera so your child can capture the fun memories. Remember to always focus on the positive fun of camp.

Most kids enjoy camp. They often look forward to returning year after year. However, careful camp selection, preparation and planning can increase the likelihood of a positive experience.